I am not good at this. I feel like I should be saying more things to you, trying to please you, thinking about what I say to you.

It is like this with everyone. It is why I never talk.

I know that if I spoke I would say things like this, and what would people say in return? That is the point. You have to give them something where they can respond and both of you have to keep doing it and soon you will feel comfortable.

I do not feel comfortable. I don't see why any of us should feel comfortable.